ROBYN FIVUSH
Professor, Department of Psychology and Program in Women's Studies
Emory University
Project title: "The Co-construction of Identity
in Family Narratives"
Reminiscing is a quintessentially human activity. Whether we are
meeting new people, chatting with old friends, or sitting around
the family dinner table, we talk about our experiences with others.
The stories of our lives are told and re-told, taking on new meanings
as we co-construct what happened with our listeners. These stories
serve many functions, but one of the most fundamental is identity
formation. Through telling our life stories to and with others,
we come to create a sense of our selves and our place in a web of
interconnected relationships. Indeed, family stories are a critical
site for children's developing sense of self. It is through participating
in co-constructed narratives about the past that young children
are learning the forms and functions of reminiscing, and coming
to understand their role in the family structure.
In the traditional nuclear families of the 1950s and 1960s, the
mother played a pivotal role in family story telling. Women traditionally
play the role of family historian, keeping track of transitions
and turning points in the larger family network and managing the
everyday emotional life of the nuclear family. As women entered
the work force in greater numbers, the emotional balance of family
life changed. In many ways, family story telling has become an even
more important part of family life for dual-earner families; it
is through co-constructed narratives that families maintain a sense
of identity as an emotional unit.
My previous research has focused on the ways in which parents and preschool
children co-construct narratives about their shared experiences,
events they have participated in together. Through analyses of these
conversations, I have demonstrated that children are learning how
to construct a sense of themselves through their past. Moreover,
there are significant and enduring individual differences in the
ways in which families engage in narrative construction, leading
to differences in children's understanding of their past and themselves.
I have also begun to examine the ways in which parents tell their
young children stories about their own childhood. Through reminiscing
about events of their own past, parents are linking their experiences
to their child's and creating intergenerational identities. I would
like to extend my research in two directions consistent with the
objectives of the Sloan Center proposal.
First, my previous research has used semi-naturalistic interviews,
in which researchers enter the home and ask parents to converse
with their child about past events. I would like to use a more naturalistic
methodology, examining the context and functions of family narratives
as they arise spontaneously in the course of daily interactions.
I am particularly interested in narratives that arise in the transition
back into the home, when one or both parents are first coming into
contact with their child(ren) at the end of the day. I believe this
is a critical juncture for re-establishing the family as an emotionally-intact
unit, and the ways in which narratives about the day are co-constructed
would be a vehicle for examining how this "emotion work" is accomplished.
Similarly, morning routines, during which transition away from the
home must be negotiated would also be of interest. How do families
discuss and prepare for the events of the upcoming day? Narratives
about future activities may be as informative as narratives about
the past.
Second, I am interested in exploring women's self-conscious roles
as family historians. Women who are working outside the home often
report the need to make sure their family remains connected both
to each other and to the larger extended family. Whereas this was
a natural outcome of "women's work" when women were traditionally
in the home, it is more difficult to negotiate this in a dual-earner
family, where time and emotional resources are more strained. How
are families compensating for the loss of a mother who is centered
in the home and whose role is to center others around the home?
Certainly analyzing the narratives themselves will provide substantial
information about this issue, but exploring this idea more directly
with mothers will complement the narrative analyses.
In sum, whereas my previous research has focused on analysis of
parent-child narratives from the perspective of children's developing
sense of autobiography and self, the proposed work will expand on
this question by enlarging the analysis to include the ways in which
narratives are used to create family cohesion and identity in dual-earner
families.
"Narratives
and Resilience in Middle-Class, Dual-Earner Families"
(Working Paper 019-02) April 2002
Robyn Fivush and Marshall Duke
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